You know your child best, and when something feels different, it’s natural to have questions. Maybe they’re not speaking yet, avoid eye contact, or play in ways that seem repetitive. These signs can be confusing, but understanding them is the first step in supporting your child’s development.
Read below to learn what Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is, early signs to watch for, and why tracking milestones matters.
What is Autism Spectrum Disorder?
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects how a child communicates, interacts, and experiences the world. It’s called a “spectrum” because it looks different in every child. Some may have limited language or avoid social interaction, while others speak well but struggle with social cues. What unites these differences is a unique, and not lesser, way of thinking and processing.
Autism is not:
Autism simply means the brain is wired differently, and recognizing this can help your child thrive with the right support.
When doctors evaluate for autism, they look for patterns in two main areas:
1. Differences in Social Communication and Interaction
This can show up as:
These might include:
Children don’t need to show all these traits. Autism presents in many different ways, which is why looking at the full picture is so important.
Developmental Milestones: What Should My Child Be Doing?
Every child develops at their own pace, but there are general milestones that provide helpful checkpoints. If your child is missing multiple milestones or shows signs of regression (losing skills they once had), it may be worth taking a closer look.
Here’s a quick guide to some key milestones by age:
Age | What's Typical? |
6 months | Smiling at people, making eye contact, showing interest in faces |
12 months | Responding to name, waving goodbye, babbling, pointing |
18 months | Using simple words, pretending in play, showing shared attention |
24 months | Speaking in 2-word phrases, following simple instructions, engaging in simply play |
36 months | Playing with other children, using full sentences, showing interest in peers and emotions |
If your child isn’t hitting several of these milestones, or if their behavior seems dramatically different from peers, it’s okay to ask questions. Early support can make a big difference.
Why Autism Can Be Easy to Miss
Some children with autism show signs early, while others may not be identified until preschool or later. This is especially true for:
That’s why a comprehensive, developmentally appropriate evaluation is key - not just a “wait and see” approach.
Why Early Evaluation Matters
Identifying autism early allows families to:
Most importantly, early support doesn’t mean trying to change who your child is. It means helping them grow with tools that match how their brain works.
If you have questions on autism screening or child development, Summus is here to help and will connect you with a child behavioral specialist to walk through all your questions.